Tuesday, February 14, 2012

GO for the RING, not a CONDOM: DEDICATED to UNWIND HLM Young Pro's


You ought to be FREE!
“a RING in the future will let you be bound honorably”

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UNWIND:  "Go for the RING, not a CONDOM"

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God has declared:   Not good for a MAN to be alone!  (see Genesis)

But boy, what a tragedy for a BOY and GIRL left all alone together!
  
WHO THEN IS A MAN?
He has MATURITY in aspects of:
  • emotions,
  • attitude, 
  • finances, 
  • physique, 
  • mentality 
  • and PURELY TESTED!
WHO THEN IS A WOMAN?
  • A person who can SAY ... NO, WAIT, LETS PRAY,  LETS GIVE IT TIME,NO ... NOT YET, 
  • NOW IS THE TIME!  (only a woman can discern this!)
remember TRAGEDIES happen when you leave a BOY and a GIRL alone!
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The Love Triangle IDEA:
MAN WOMAN GOD

Marriage is God’s Idea
God loves you and me and wants us to enjoy life!
God is author of this.

Man and Woman must consult the AUTHOR ….

WHEN TO “FALL in LOVE?”

  • When YOU KNOW IT IS true love!
  • That is why there is a DARE here!
  • A DARE to REAL AND TRUE LOVE!
  • Romance is not LOVE.
  • Sex is not LOVE.
I love you … most of the time IS NOT LOVE!
IT IS LOVE ME … NOT LOVE YOU!

OK … what is LOVE?

  • A commitment!  (THEREFORE GO FOR MARRIAGE)
  • A protection!  (THEREFORE DO NOT GO TO BED BEFORE YOUR WEDDING)
  • An honor!  (THEREFORE YOU HAVE TO PUT YOUR UNDERWEAR ON ... ALWAYS!)
  • A gift to celebrate at the right time!  (GO FOR ENGAGEMENT!)

a JOB DESCRIPTION for a Pastor for Youth [YX] and Singles:
  • to TEACH love.
  • to MODEL love.
Since UNWIND is composed of LEADERS in the marketplace and in secular business, you must by God’s power and grace DARE OTHERS TO KNOW WHAT LOVE REALLY IS!  The TRUE Love, REAL Love, Holy LOVE, JESUS Love :-)

  • LOVE is more of an ACTION … than an EMOTION!
Emotions may come and go …
Love stays!
Love commits!
Love remits!


HOW NOT TO FALL?
  • By knowing all the time THAT YOU CAN FALL!
  • By surrounding your HEART with GOD’S FAVOR!  (most of the time … it is to please others … follow hollywood … impress self)
  • BY NOT RUSHING LOVE!
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The purpose of that FIRE within you …
is to SET IT ABLAZE in the context of commitment …

If not … it will have a great BANG … then a disaster follow.

It should be in a BIG BANG … protected by marriage!

The best way to be against

PREMARITAL SEX
ABORTION
PROMISCUITY

Is to be married … not to be in a situation where you will HIDE … BUT where you can be publicly celebrated!!!
WILL YOU allow God to write your LOVE Story?

Will you surrender to HIM first as MASTER?

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While young …and SINGLE ...
    build build build!
  • BUILD A NETWORK …
  • BUILD EXPERIENCES …
  • BUILD CONTACTS … using your money!
  • PASS Life to Others.
  • FAST
  • THINK
  • LINK
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Warning ... (article below is borrowed):
The Two Types of Men
When it comes to relationships, I believe there are basically two types of men: protectors and predators.

I’ll describe each.

PROTECTORS
As the name implies, a protector is interested in protecting the heart, purity, and reputation of any woman he is in a relationship with.  He wants to postpone sex until marriage, and his actions prove it.

A protector puts her needs before his own.  The woman in his life feels completely safe: she feels loved, honored and at peace with her own conscience.

 PREDATORS
A predator is not safe to be with.                      
He is primarily interested in his own wants, and women are simply a means to that end.

A predator can be charming,  smooth, persuasive, and manipulative—after all, he must carefully disguise his true nature and intentions.  He seeks his own gratification, indifferent to the harm he causes.
Sooner or later, the woman in his life loses: she loses her innocence, self-respect, and maybe more.   

Ladies, what kind of men are you choosing? 
Men, what kind of man are you choosing to be?

Tip:
Don’t be preoccupied with a MATE. (that’s the way the world thinks and acts)

Be preoccupied with GOD’s ASSIGNMENT. (that’s what a disciple does)

He is the one doing something at the BACKGROUND … preparing, curing, cooking, brewing the best for you!  The finest is coming!

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EDITORIAL / NEWS ... FUNNY
Pinays prefer ugly, rich husbands
This seems to be true for a majority of Filipino women who prefer to marry for money rather than looks, according to a survey by the Social Weather Stations (SWS) released yesterday.
The pre-Valentine survey showed 51 percent of Filipino women wouldn’t mind marrying a rich but ugly man.
This means the remaining 46 percent would rather marry a good-looking guy even if he were poor.

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1 comment:

Anonymous said...

thank you pastor -- funny thought though for the ugly rich guy. Be blessed! this generation is in desperate need of Jesus Christ :)

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